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Blessing In Disguise: My personal experience: No: -1


The phrase “blessings in disguise” refers to unexpected and seemingly negative events or circumstances that ultimately have positive outcomes. The origin of this statement can be traced back to an old fable that dates back to ancient times.

There is a story on this phrase: ” Blessings in Disguise”.

The story goes that a king once had a wise advisor who always told him that “all that happens is for the good.” The king was sceptical of this, so he devised a test to prove his advisor wrong. He ordered the advisor to wear a necklace of precious jewels and walk through the streets of the city, only to be robbed by a thief. The advisor complied, and sure enough, he was robbed by a thief who took the necklace.

The king then revealed himself to the advisor and asked him if he still believed that all that happens is for the good. The advisor replied that he did and explained that the thief had spared his life because he recognized the advisor as the king’s trusted advisor. The thief knew that if he killed the advisor, he would have incurred the wrath of the king, so he let him go.

The king was impressed by the advisor’s wisdom and declared that indeed, there are blessings in disguise. From that point on, the phrase “blessings in disguise” has been used to describe unexpected events or circumstances that turn out to be beneficial in the long run, even if they don’t seem that way at first.

In modern times, the phrase “blessings in disguise” is often used as a reminder to look for the positive in difficult situations, and to have faith that things will work out in the end. It encourages people to be resilient, adaptable, and open-minded, and to trust that there is a greater purpose or plan behind the events of their lives.

Life has a funny way of turning things around, what may seem like a setback or a disappointment at first, can often turn out to be a blessing in disguise. In this blog post, I will share my personal experience of how an unexpected turn of events led me to discover some hidden blessings that I never would have imagined.

My personal experience: No: -1

In 1993, I was working as a CNS Executive at Ahmedabad Airport, responsible for managing the Communication, Navigation, and Surveillance subsystems that form the backbone of Air Traffic Management (ATM) infrastructure. However, I faced a difficult situation due to dirty politics played by the then Officer in charge and a few of his associates. They would frequently change my unit to create difficulties and mental pressure.



Despite the challenges, I persisted and continued to work on different subsystems, gaining valuable experience in VHF, HF, DVOR, DME, ILS, and X-BIS technologies over the next six years. This experience proved to be a blessing in disguise when a new ruling came in that required a minimum of two years of experience in a facility to be eligible to appear for the proficiency certificate examination. 

Fortunately, I had acquired the necessary experience in all of the relevant facilities, and as a result, I was allowed to appear for the theory and practical exam. Thanks to my dedication and hard work, I was able to pass both with flying colours.

Meanwhile, the officers who played dirty politics with me were unable to appear for more than two facilities, as they had not changed their units to enjoy fixed-duty places. This turned out to be a blessing in disguise for me, as it allowed me to gain valuable experience and knowledge that ultimately helped me succeed in my career.


Looking back, I realize that the difficult situation I faced at Ahmedabad Airport was actually a blessing in disguise. It taught me the value of perseverance and hard work, and it helped me develop the skills and expertise I needed to succeed in my career. And while I would never wish for similar challenges again, I know that I can handle them if they arise, thanks to the blessings that emerged from that difficult situation.

Note: CNS facilities are managed by Air Traffic Safety Electronics Personnel (ATSEPs), who are responsible for the specification, procurement, installation, integration, calibration, maintenance, safety assurance, and monitoring of these systems. ATSEPs are typically engineers, technicians, and hardware/software specialists who work closely with air traffic controllers to ensure the safe and efficient movement of aircraft.

Next Post will be on another example of “Blessings in Disguise”.

40 thoughts on “Blessing In Disguise: My personal experience: No: -1”

  1. Blessings in disguise…the Lord often places us in situations where we are required to press through. God is building us up, mentally, spiritually, and sometimes physically, in preparation for things that are forthcoming. He knows how to prepare us for the thoughts and plans that He has for us. Great Story, Arun💕

    1. Thank you so much Tam. Each word you said is 💯 percent true.
      I have passed through many tests. Some tests are very personal and very painful which pushes me more towards spirituality.
      Thank you so much again and again ☺️
      Love you. 💕
      Arun 🙏

    1. Thank you so much for your comments. Indeed bad things return good things, provided we have patience and we understand that it is really not bad. If you go through my personal experience, what I have shared, you will see that a few of my colleagues played politics with their perception that I might be finding difficulties to handle new systems. But, actually I was rather happy with new systems so that I got a chance to learn and work.
      This phase of my life of almost 6-7 years, was difficult, yet final results were good 😊
      Thanks for your reply 😊🙏

  2. Sir, I agree with your statement often we get sidelined for no reason and pushed away from important matters only to be accommodative and develop endurance which in turn helps us to evolve as a human being. Sadly, the duration of the test is long for us to rationalise the events so maturity can happen only when you overcome and face the challenges in front and never to give up must be the motto. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. Be safe and take care 🙏

    1. I was not unhappy for their politics. But I was happy with the assignments that were given to me. I understood that they are playing.
      But I felt happy with the machines.
      Machines are faithful. Men are not.
      You will be happy to know that as soon as I used to take over charge of my responsibilities (machines) I always fulfilled my duties towards upkeeping their health.
      They never betrayed.
      But human betrayed.
      The nearest one betrayed.
      Thank you so much for your comments 🙏😊

    2. Yes, I want to say this too, be safe and take care, Arun. It is so important that there is some kind of trust between people.
      Machines can never fulfil all our needs. I guess, one has to respect people, even the ones that don’t like us much. It looks to me, Arun, you handled the situation very well under difficult circumstances. Hopefully, you are in a position now, to be able to avoid having to work under such difficult circumstances.

      1. Thank you so much Uta Madam. I am retired now. Retired from service on 31-12-2018.
        Happy to see your reply after a long time. I was away from home. On tour to Himalayas.

        1. This sounds very good, Arun. Peter, my husband, retired early, and always enjoyed travelling. I think, our retirement years together were the best years of our lives. All this travelling, I miss this now. Since he passed away, I have to learn to do a bit of travelling on my own. But I am lucky, sometimes some family helps a bit too. 🙂

          1. You must travel to pass time with nature. Best friends are Nature.
            Love Rivers, Oceans, Mountains and forests.
            There I find my peace.
            Husband and wife can’t remain all together in life. One goes early. But the other must survive with peace and happiness.
            Therefore I request you to look after yourself and find time to travel.
            Have a blissful time ahead ❤️😊

  3. Firstly , thanks for inviting me here

    Sir, yourself in the post and in your experience , as well as in ur career prospective YOU serve as an inspiration for us readers. You have done a great job. As you see , what happens -happens For the good reasons . All I realize from ur post and know politics is everywhere i guess, self side of story should be clean and straight . And as you always say, kindness and compassion – these two always contribute to positivity .I’m Glad you enjoyed the work and later achievements
    congratulations on passing your exams in flying colors , back then .
    Keep posting , really nice posts in ur blog

    Warm wishes
    Man Kun

    1. Thank you so much for reading my post. I have shared my experience with motivating people.
      Your mind is also trained mind. That is why you can resonate with similar lines of thoughts.
      Keep well always.
      We will be in touch.
      Best wishes 🙏😊

  4. Arun, hello. At some point in my life, I realized that I was truly grateful for the difficulties that come my way. It turned out that overcoming them is just a matter of attitude towards them. When difficulties arise, it is necessary to tell yourself that this is a problem that needs to be solved. The lesson that a person learns for himself in solving difficult problems is a blessing in disguise. I realized that the path is the solution to the problems that are encountered along the way. Then everything finally fell into place, and every time I thank the Universe for giving me the difficulties.
    In our culture, there is one of the principles that guide people in life – “life offers a person tests that are within his power and which he can overcome.” Understanding this helps to find reserves for success in trials.
    I wish you a good day! Olga

    1. 💯 percent right.
      Your views and my views are the same.
      The universe speaks with us, when you speak and get messages through an intuitive route.
      Your experience is the same as I have.
      This happens when we activate our intellect.
      I feel I am blessed to have friends like you. In this way we increase our knowledge and confidence. I believe that.
      We are not separate.
      Only physical entities are apparently seen as separate.
      As in a garland, the flowers 🌺 are individual, but the garland is one. The same way we are the flowers of one garland 💕
      I am very happy 😊
      We will be in touch and share our knowledge to gain more.
      Thank you so much Olga for your support and encouragement through your valuable feedback 🙏
      Best wishes.
      It is 23:26 here.
      Have a blissful time ahead 😊🙏

      1. Agree. It’s great luck to meet a friend. 👏 But I think that in our life there is nothing accidental. So this meeting would have happened anyway.
        Glad to have a friend like you Arun. ☺
        In Moscow now 21:21.
        Good night, Arun.

        1. Very true my dear friend Olga. Indeed nothing is accidental in actual sense. We might have met earlier too, but can not remember. In this line of thought, there are very good books. One of them is “Many Lives, Many Masters”: By Dr. Brian L Weiss. The true story of a prominent psychiatrist, his young patient, and the past-life therapy that changed both their lives. As a traditional psychotherapist, Dr. Brian Weiss was astonished and sceptical when one of his patients began recalling past-life traumas that seemed to hold the key to her recurring nightmares and anxiety attacks.
          Anyways, I am very glad to have you here as very good friend.
          Have a blissful weekend.
          Best wishes, Olga.

          1. Thanks for the tip, dear Arun. With pleasure I will read reflections on the topic of past lives in the book Dr. Brian L Weiss.
            It is interesting that it is common for a person to think that he is embodied in different physical shells.

            Have a good weekend!
            Olga 🫱

            1. Initially I had many doubts as everyone has. But, with studies and practice of self-awareness, I have started realising all these things.
              In this connection I have pdf books. Please share your email ID. I will send.
              My WhatsApp number is
              You can add, if you wish. Send me one hello. I will send you selected books (PDF).
              Thank you so much for all your replies, comments.

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